Saturday, 25 June 2011

"life's not just about happiness"

someone reacted to my saying to him, "i want you to be happy," saying that "life's not just about happiness".

that made me think: so... what's life about, if not about happiness? it's not about the pursuit of frivolity, is it? but since i wasn't looking for an argument, i held my tongue.

maslow's hierarchy of robot needs helps illustrate my thinking:


























well, alright, so we're not robots and we don't kill humans - though sometimes we'd very much want to, especially during traffic peak hours.

but truly, happiness is a by-product of this. to tell me that happiness (and its other forms: contentment, satisfaction, joy - happiness and all its subsets) is not what life's about - then there must be something i am totally not understanding. is there some joy in suffering, like a diet?

not wrong, but if it makes you happy/satisfied convinced that life really isn't about happiness - then i guess you're happy. i'm not disagreeing with you (i can't) because it's a everyone's personal choice.

and if you're happy i'm happy, see?


said friend, i'm not looking for a fight, to argue. i just want you to be happy, and i'm sure that you already are, when i said that.

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