finding nemo.

sometimes when you hear someone moving on you can hear your own heart cracking, still. why? is it because you hadn't really moved on despite y'know, that you've "moved on", complete with new significant other?

so why do people still get that pang when they hear that oh, the ex has moved on, is seeing someone and is happy? instead of smiling and blessing the relationship all you can manage is DIE BITCH - and that's superbly strange because well, you've moved on, haven't you?

is it out of a twisted sense of vengefulness or is it because "you have shared something with someone you thought was special"?

i see people break up, get together and break up again (with different people, mind), and that cycle repeats itself a few times during the year... i can't help but wonder if it's how people of the city view the world these days. how valuable is a relationship?

is it just stopping short of asking, "how much for love, please?"

other than the answer "pipty dorrah me lub you long time" i mean.

well then the next logical question will be "how long?"


...but i suspect that's not entirely appropriate a response in this thread. ahem.

so. is that why singapore and the world's divorce rate is so high? what are the reasons why the divorce rate this high anyway? what's the issue? are they looking only for fast love? once the make-up and the wonderbra come off it all goes downhill from there? and once you get past the tanned skin and muscles and sparkly grin all you get is the pea-brained concerns?

like, "does my butt look fat in this"?

and truly, can you live with that? or do you prefer someone who can hold a conversation longer than say, 10 minutes?

how many intelligent, sensitive, handsome men are out there anyway? and how many beautiful, understanding and smart women, too?

well are they straight, then? it's important, especially if you've very particular preferences.


i'm pretty convinced that there is someone for everyone, and i hope for the world's sake that it won't take till they're 80 that they meet those people.